Not sure if this is the right place to post this, but I would appreciate anyone's input. my fiance and i are planning on having a really laid back wedding reception. We're doing everything ourselves except for the food. We want a sort of backyard pic nic feel, so we're ordering hoagies from our fav place to be the main food. Im making sides and aps and all that. We're also having lawn games (croquette, horse shoes, ect). Anyway, we like this idea and it's cost effective. His parents are on board, my dad couldnt care less, but my grandmom is having a big problem with it. her opinion does matter to me as she is the only living member of my mom's side of the family. i am also her only grand daughter and she feels that we should be having a more traditional type of reception. Any ideas to placate her? She's a wonderful woman and i can see her point, but we'd really like to keep the whole thing low key. we're getting married oct 5 by the way, in my grandpop's back yard. about 65 people. thanks in advance!