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Bachlorette Paty Ideas

Emilykaye8605Emilykaye8605
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I have 5 BM, 3 are very vocal, 1 is ... MaidZilla. She is trying to plan the Bach party and im not even sure what I want to do. There are around 26 girls I'd like to invite, but i don't want to go to bars and Booze. I want to have fun and hang out with these girl. any ideas ? I live in a small town but pretty close to big cities. 
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  • misshart00misshart00 member
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    The most you can do is give her suggestions about what you want to do. If she doesn't listen, decline the party.
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  • PeledreamsofrainPeledreamsofrain member
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    In Response to Re:Bachlorette Paty Ideas:[QUOTE]I have 5 BM, 3 are very vocal, 1 is ...nbsp;MaidZilla. She is trying to plan the Bach party and im not even sure whatnbsp;I want to do. There are around 26 girls I'd like to invite, but i don't want to go to bars and Booze.nbsp;I want to have fun and hang out with these girl. any ideas ?nbsp;I live in a small town but pretty close to big cities.nbsp; Posted by Emilykaye8605[/QUOTE]

    I'm confused, why would you call someone a zilla for trying to give you a gift? That seems seriously ungrateful. Also, why would you go to complete strangers to tell you what kind of party you would enjoy? You could like mud wrestling for all we know.
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  • Teddy917Teddy917 member
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    You really shouldn't help plan your own bachelorette party.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_bachlorette-paty-ideas?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:f5809fb7-044e-4f05-82a8-6bb13708d140Post:c5d3ce28-a196-4a83-8fe1-a57f36ec9574">Re:Bachlorette Paty Ideas</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re:Bachlorette Paty Ideas: I'm confused, why would you call someone a zilla for trying to give you a gift? That seems seriously ungrateful. Also, why would you go to complete strangers to tell you what kind of party you would enjoy? You could like mud wrestling for all we know.
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    This. And I'm all for mud wrestling, so if you go that route, keep me in mind for the guest list, please! 
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    In Response to Re:Bachlorette Paty Ideas:[QUOTE]In Response to Re:Bachlorette Paty Ideas:In Response to Re:Bachlorette Paty Ideas: I'm confused, why would you call someone a zilla for trying to give you a gift? That seems seriously ungrateful. Also, why would you go to complete strangers to tell you what kind of party you would enjoy? You could like mud wrestling for all we know.Posted by PeledreamsofrainThis. And I'm all for mud wrestling, so if you go that route, keep me in mind for the guest list, please!nbsp; Posted by AddieL73[/QUOTE]

    Haha Addie. Scandelous!
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  • Summer2011BrideSummer2011Bride member
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    Yeah I'm curious why you are calling the one girl a "maid zilla."

    But regardless, if she asks you for suggestions, you can suggest a couple different things you like to do. Saying, "I'd really love something more low key and not going to bars to drink" would be fine. Give her a couple options, let her take care of all of the actual planning. She will probably ask for a guest list and you can give her the girls you would like to invite.


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  • erinlin25erinlin25 member
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    It's fine to have some ideas in mind, but also keep in mind that those hosting/attending the bachelorette party have say too since they are paying.  Hopefully they will ask you what you would like to do (or not do) but its not a guarantee all your wishes will be granted. 
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  • vanityinkvanityink member
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    I have no idea what's happening with my bachelorette party. The BMs didn't ask for my imput and I didn't force it on them. It's a gift they are offering me, I'm not going to demand they do X. Many women don't even have a bach party, be grateful your BM wants to do this for you.
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  • hockeywife10hockeywife10 member
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    MOH is talking about having a Pure Romance Party for me, bachelorette kinda party with friends, food and maybe a little booze. We are all staying in for the evening... Something to think about ;P

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  • Emilykaye8605Emilykaye8605
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_bachlorette-paty-ideas?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:f5809fb7-044e-4f05-82a8-6bb13708d140Post:2a763b04-d1ec-40c9-9a72-46275f99845a">Re: Bachlorette Paty Ideas</a>:
    [QUOTE]Yeah I'm curious why you are calling the one girl a "maid zilla." But regardless, if she asks you for suggestions, you can suggest a couple different things you like to do. Saying, "I'd really love something more low key and not going to bars to drink" would be fine. Give her a couple options, let her take care of all of the actual planning. She will probably ask for a guest list and you can give her the girls you would like to invite.
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    This "maidZilla" isnt my MOH nor is she one of my 2 sister. She is living her wedding threw mine and IM TRYING to be the nicest I can be with this matter. I'm not calling her a maidzilla just because!! She planned my engagement party... we go into detail on that one but i dont want my bach party to turn out like that one. Im very grateful to have her and her wantting to help but ...
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