I've tried googling my question but none of the answers fit my situation really. I've read the two "receptions" thing is tacky and whatnot. We are doing a church ceremony at the church we both attend and that my fiance grew up in and I'm highly involved in. We want to do an open invite for our church family and all other guests for the ceremony and then have a cakecutting immediately following and then after pictures do an actual reception elsewhere for our personally invited guests. Our church doesn't allow dancing and most of our church family is elders who would want to watch members wed but not the fun party afterwards. Would this be acceptable or is it just like all other two receptions?