Hi everyone!
This is my first post on this part of the board, I guess because mine isn't -technically- a gay wedding. I'm cis and my fiance is a transman. We are not, in the eyes of the law, a straight couple. We could go to a state where gay couples are allowed to marry and be married as a lesbian couple, but we don't want that because that's not what we are.
So we're planning a traditional 'wedding' but with all the money that goes into a wedding, it's becoming so stressful. I want to have family and friends there to see us truly commit to each other, but I'm getting so discouraged. Now I'm wondering if it's even worth it to go through all of this.
Am I terrible for feeling like this? Am I the only one who sometimes feels like it's pointless to go through it all? And if I'm not, how do you avoid the feeling?
Thanks.