I am living in LA, but looking to get married in either upstate NY or the Kentucky/Tennessee area. My fiance and I are both from upstate NY, but my extended family is from Louisville, KY and my fiance and I lived in Memphis for about a year and a half. That being said, we are very open to where we get married since we can't afford to get married in California/most people won't be able to make it out here. Our dream wedding is an outdoor ceremony with the reception in a barn setting. Online searches are minimal and it seems that word of mouth works better. My parents are giving us $20,000 and my fiance's parents are paying for the rehersal dinner, so we are trying really hard to stay within that budget for everything. Any advice would help!! Thanks in advance!