Hi Ladies, I haven't posted or even lurked in a while (maybe I've been actually focusing on my work during the day but I doubt that's it) but I thought you other Not yet engaged girls would be able to commiserate with me over this situation. Btw my bf and I live together and we are both 28. So bf got an invite for his college friends wedding. College friend is from CT, wedding is in VT in June..we got the invite in March...and we live in PA. I've never met this friend or really heard much about him. Now, I can smile my way through being referred to as "and guest" (like at his cousins wedding where I had met this cousin and part of the family previously at 3 recent weddings) but I was not even invited! Let's keep in my the friend has fb so he can see my bf is not single and also he had to get MY ADDRESS to send an invite to just my bf. I mean come on. The worst is my bf thought this was ok! He said people have to draw the line somewhere for the guest list (I informed him I'll be drawing any future lines at his friends I haven't met haha) but at least after googling and asking around he finally came to his senses that this was poor etiquette and RSVP today for no. It's just so annoying and frustrating! I understand people will follow maybe some stricter "etiquette rules," but at my age now most people of our friends are married or in a serious relationship, I can't imagine you have so many friends in fling type situations that you need to judge the seriousness of relationships to cut the guest list. Ok rant over. Do others experience this situation often? How do you deal with it? Bf is worried other mutual friends will start asking why he's not going. I told him to tell the real reason, but I doubt he will.
