My FMIL doesn't agree with our engagement or marriage. She say she likes me but doesn't think we should be married. She only talks to me in a general stranger like sense and this is odd to me because my parents my FH are really close and FH and MOB are in contact all the time about wedding planning and stuff. Anyway. My mother has decided to host the rehearsal dinner and FH has picked his side of the guest list without any help from his mother. I think that even if she doesn't agree with our marriage she should still be involved but FH says to just let well enough alone. I just want us to be close and be able to bond over wedding planning things. Should I just let my mother do the rehearsal dinner and let well enough alone? Idk any advice???