I'm so ready to get to the point where i have things paid off. FI and I are paying for everything by ourselves. FI has gone way off budget going out to eat everyday last week. He always says he got it he knows what he's doing but when I ask him how much he saved or does he want to go pay on something he never has any money. This is working on my nerves I have been paying and paying on things but he hasn't. I don't want his mom to have to pay for his part of the wedding because then they would turn it around on me saying I'm sending his money that's why he never has any. ahhhhhh he needs to get on the ball the wedding is almost here. I want to be finished paying with everything by July but he still has like 7500 left to pay on things and doesn't have anything saved.