My fiance and I DETEST cake. I mean we have birthday pie every year. We think cake is to dry, flavorless and over frosted and that is all cake, so my question/delimma is, I know that cake is a traditional offering, but is it acceptable to have wedding pie? Have several types offered on different levels, with or without cream, ala mode or not, with maybe a small cheescake for the topper to rest on (the only kind that we can tolerate, though the graham cracker crust is not a favorite either). What does anyone think?