I know a million versions of this question have been asked before - but here's mine:
My fiance and I decided we did not want children at our wedding. Though there aren't many children amongst our friends and family, the few that there are are probably 12 and under. It's an evening wedding and we don't want any bored kids running around or crying babies.
We recently received a response card from my fiance's former colleague saying that her husband is away for the weekend and she's going to bring her daughter as her date instead. The problem is, we're not sure how old her daughter is. If she's an older teen we're okay with it, but if she's younger, we have to say "no" to be fair to our other guests who are leaving their kids at home.
My fiance doesn't speak to this woman frequently, so we think email is the best way to communicate. Any ideas on how to word it? It's a little awkward since we're not 100% sure how old her daughter is.
EDIT: Invite was addressed to "Mr & Mrs So and So." We're fine with giving her a call too, but even so, what should we say?