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Feeling some kinda way...

MrsBad13MrsBad13 member
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I woke up this morning feeling in over my head and want to cancel this wedding. I just don't think things are going to turn out the way I want them to. I'm so tired of spending money of this stuff. We still have a couple of vendors that need to be paid off , still got stuff to order online. Ugghhh. I just want to be married and be happy. Not stressing over these little details and having to keep cutting back on things. Yall please pray for me.
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  • tirathemrstirathemrs member
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    AWWWW you are definitely in my prayers....hopefully by the time you get to your big day you wont feel as overwhelmed and hopefully you can be stress free...btw we are always here if you need to talk....

    Lilypie - H1jI


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  • MissusD1116MissusD1116 member
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    Oh no ma'am!  Don't you start!  You know that the Lord has brought yall tooo far to leave you!  You are almost there!  You chin up and stop this madness right now and look to the hills from which cometh YOUR help!!!

    You know I will start preaching up in this piece nah!  LOL!
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  • nursing2unursing2u member
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    Girl.. I completely understand...the more money put out.. the more I start thinking .. ohhh what we could do with that money..

    the courthouse is right around the corner...

    Like Miyah said.. keep your head up and keep it moving... You are going to have a BEAUTIFUL DAY.. and a gorgeous start to your lives together as man and wife!!!!
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  • LeciaBLeciaB member
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    you are in my prayer love .. you are almost there home stretch

    Daisypath - (PNE7)
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  • shaygray88shaygray88 member
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    I am in the same boat as you girl. Truth be told we are leaning towards the courthouse at this point. However I digress lol. You are so close to the big day and you are almost done. Hang in there and keep your head up! I'll say a prayer:)
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  • island07b2bisland07b2b member
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    I'll pray for you and you pray for me.  I FEEL your pain.  I really do.  I still have the excitement for the wedding day but right behind that thought of excitement comes that thought of UGH.   Woosah!!!  Woosah!!!  I was probably no help, huh?  Sorry.  



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  • MrsBad13MrsBad13 member
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    MissusD..Sniff sniff..ok..wiping tears lol. I know I know. Yall...I just was feeling like why are we doing this. The courthouse don't seem to bad. Lol I'm like geesh..do I still need to buy more ribbon..like seriously ?! Giving the side eye this morning while pulling up to Michaels. Ha ! I feel behind because I got the invites out late, I still got stuff to order online. Still gotta get my kids stuff. Sigh. After today I will pull myself together..I promise. Me and FI had a good talk to and he made me feel better. I so love him. Everyday he gives me another reason to add too my why I love him list . He is truly my bestfriend ! I thank you ladies for being encouraging..I so love you ladies !!
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  • CreoleBride30CreoleBride30 member
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    It's ok MrsBad.  Just take a deep breath and everything will be alright.  Remember, what your true priorities are....to marry your fiance...all the other stuff is honestly "for show". If something goes wrong so what.  If somethings out of place, so what.  The most important thing is that you and your future hubby are on one accord and are ready to spend a lifetime together.  

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