Hi everyone,
My Rabbi explained that in Jewish weddings we don't technically say vows, but that we can say a personal promise to each other before reciting the blessings. I posted my "vows" on chit chat but people felt they weren't serious enough to be vows. I winder if they are right, or if it's a cultural thing, since these are not our "legal bounding vows" or anything...
At other Jewish weddings I have been to the b and g share their feelings for eachother and make some promises, then say the blessing with the rabbi, so that was kind of my inspiration when writing my own...
I would REALLY appreciate feedback from this board to figure out if I'm way off or if what I wrote is good. THANK YOU!
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