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One week One day

kinibeany18kinibeany18
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I am getting married on April 20 and I am not excited, in fact I'm dreading the day. I can't wait to be married and start my life with my husband, I just am dreading the actual wedding part. Is that normal? lol idk. I hate standing in front of people and I hate all the attention that the day will bring.
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  • GinaV0822GinaV0822 member
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    April 20 here too!  I'm the same way.  I cannot wait to be married and to say my vows to FI, but I am terrified of being in front of everyone.  What if I fall or trip or something.  And what if I'm a blubbering fool?  Ugh.  But, it's family and friends and I have to just focus on FI and I'm hoping I'll be okay.

    Good luck to us!!!
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  • likeadeadstarlikeadeadstar
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    Thirded!  I have social phobia and even though our wedding is small by design, I still feel queasy at the thought of attention on me.  I was also pretty sick for much of last year and gained a lot of weight so I feel really unhappy with my body.  It was too much to undo once I started feeling better last fall, so I feel like I'm going to hate every single photo already, PLUS be anxious that people are looking at me at all.

    I think we'll be okay.  I know I've told FI all about my stress and anxiety and I know he'll do his best to help me forget all about the people and focus on being silly and happy with him.  I've also decided we can do a renewal years from now and take photos again when I'm back in my healthy shape and such, which will help a bit too.  That's what FIs are for:  they're our supportive partners, right?
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