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Bm not coming to rehearsal dinner.

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I just found out that instead of coming to our rehearsal dinner, one of my bridesmaids is going to a concert with her boyfriend. I know the RD isn't technically required, I'm just kind of bummed. They just got tickets a few weeks ago so it's not like they were planning this before the wedding. I guess at least she's coming to the actual rehearsal.
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  • kmmssgkmmssg mod
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    It is NBD.  Really.  Good concerts come through once in awhile and as long as she shows up on time, is sober, in the right dress, and smiles for pictures she has done her duty.  I understand you are a bit bummed, but this is small crackers.  Let it go.
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  • libby2483libby2483 member
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    I understand that you are disappointed, but this is something that you should just let go.  She is still coming to the rehearsal after all.  H's brother was a GM and was unable to make it to the rehearsal or rehearsal dinner.  He still managed to walk down the aisle just fine at the wedding.  
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  • Summer2011BrideSummer2011Bride member
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    It's fine to be disappointed, but just realize that she is still giving you her time and coming to the rehearsal plus she will be there the entire next day. I love going to concerts and if a really good one came to town, i would probably go to that over a rehearsal dinner too. it sounds like she told you about it ahead of time too, not just on the night of, so I would try to not be upset about it.


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  • AddieCakeAddieCake member
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    This is not something you should spend one second caring about. She will be there for the rehearsal; don't worry about dinner.
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] member
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    I agree with all PP, she's coming to rehersal which is important & as long as she shows up on time & ready to go the next day. It's all good. I do understand it's a bummer she won't be there. We had a GM that had to ditch out after rehersal because he had to go to work. He had just started a new job where he was working 6-7 days a week and it was a lot of him to get day of wedding off (he got job months after agreeing to be in wedding party). It would have been nice for him to join us in the dinner/celebration after the rehersal, but we understood & he was there Saturday morning & smiled make it through the day.
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] member
    Fourth Anniversary 10 Comments
    Thanks ladies!
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