Okay so here's the deal regarding my "bachelorette party," or rather what seems to be falling apart at the seams. A few days after my shower, which was a little over a month ago, my aunt, my matron of honor, messaged everyone and said hey guys- April 6th is the date for Ally's bachelorette, we're doing a spa day and having dinner at the Melting Pot. I'll let you all know when we decide on a spa.
Since then my aunt decided to let me and one of my local BM choose the spa since we know what's in our area best. So the past few weeks we've been researching spas and trying to find the best deals mixed with good quality. In the meantime apparently there's been snarling from my two FSILs, both BMs, about how no one has been in touch with them about anything. But all they were told to do is save the date and were given the general game plan- aka clear your schedule that day (it worked for all of them, btw) My aunt and local BM didn't need any help from them so they didn't ask their input. They're not big spa people anyway, they NEVER go, so we didn't think they'd have much to contribute. They helped a lot with the shower anyway so my BM thought she was giving them a break. FSIL is like 33 weeks pregnant, btw.
Fast forward to today, my BM and I decided on a spa with a wide variety of pricing and coupons galore and BM called and scheduled it. I just saw FMIL at church tonight and let her know she was more than welcome to come to the bachelorette day if she wanted since all we were doing is spa and the Melting Pot. She got this look on her face like a "ha! seriously?" kind of expressiona and said "oh. well no one ever told me or anyone else anything." And I was like "ah well.. they were told the date and the spa was TBD, I was just letting you know." And on the way home I get a text from local BM saying pregnant FSIL isn't coming cause she has a baby shower to go to that day.
Um... what?? I know she's pulling this just because she's mad no one involved her in the planning. But she hijacked my shower and did everything the way she wanted to despite my aunt and local BM trying to tell her what I liked. My shower was beautiful, but after the way FSIL treated my aunt and friend, they just wanted to book the BP themselves and save themselves the trouble of dealing with FSIL.
I'm so annoyed with his sisters. One of them left my shower after 15 minutes to go to a BRIDAL SHOW and now his other sister won't even come to my BP. Ughhhhh. Okay rant over. But am I wrong for being upset that she's flaking last minute under suspect conditions?