My parents are divorced, and they are both remarried. My dad is paying for 95% of my wedding and just happens to be remarried to the queen of etiquette. My mom is helping me plan virtually everything, but she's not in a position that she can help financially due to recent loss of job and foreclosure. I have no idea how to word my invitation. I know that my dad and stepmom should be the hosts, but it will kill my mom if I leave her completely off. Is there a way to order the names on the invitation that will give my dad credit for paying for the wedding, but my mom credit for being my mom?