According to my FMIL I need bridesmaids.
FH has a bestman and a few ushers (groomsmen) so fine. I don't want a lot so my first thing was to ask if my two nieces wanted to be. They both did so sorted
I did not realise that my FMIL actually meant I should have my FSIL and one of FH female cousins who he is very close to.
I don't want those two woman - now they are lovely but if I was having more I would have my best friends over those two because that would feel right. (My closest cousins are men and my sister is a lot older and would not want to be a BM though she is being my witness anyway)
But apparently it would be nice and I "really should have them"
FPIL are hosting, paying and (basically) controlling the wedding. I know this gives them far more say in what it looks like and is (which is fine) but does this go as far as saying how big my wedding party is and who is in it?