I got married to my husband in January in a wedding that we planned in 5 days. He was back from boot camp for a week to see the birth of our twins and then left for his AIT. We didnt even get 24 hours together as a married couple. That being said, I will be moving in June to his new base and never had an actual bridal shower. My cousin said I should have a bridal shower/going away party/moving party so I can get the things I'll need for our home and everyone can see us before we move over a thousand miles away. Problem is, I plan on having a legit wedding ceremony in 2 years. Should I just forget the actual wedding and do a shower? I have no idea!