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This is going to be a looong few months...

fperez7542fperez7542
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My mom has offered to do my shower because of all the arguments, complaints and drama the BMs & MOH are going through.  One less thing to worry about although they wanted to do my shower.

So as I'm looking at invites for my mom I notice an RSVP area and thought "crap, my mom only speaks Spanish" so one of my close friends (who also happened to be a BM) offered to just be the RSVP person for my mom but she said I should mention it to the MOH because she'd didn't want to step on her toes.  Since we are all friends, given this is why I asked them to be part of the WP I texted the MOH and that just went all wrong.  Her response was "That is my job...but do whatever you want, its your wedding."

I haven't been able to respond because I am a tad bit upset.  Love my MOH to death but she is the worst person to get a hold off, even prior to the wedding.  I was use to calling her or texting and it taking days and sometimes weeks to get a response back.  I knew this so I can't be upset that this is one of the problems the BMs have with her.  However, this is one of the reason's I wouldn't put her as RSVP for the shower and I even told her this.  She doesn't argue that she  never answers or is hard to get a hold off, but she does argue and give me attitude about taking away things that are her "job."  

I think now I'm understanding the BMs a bit better.  

Mini vent over.  

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Re: This is going to be a looong few months...

  • Stina51286Stina51286 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_this-is-going-to-be-a-looong-few-months?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:37Discussion:88b737f0-a8d1-4097-995f-37eb7c652c56Post:ed6636a2-02fb-437f-a612-2330bc983c31">This is going to be a looong few months...</a>:
    [QUOTE]My mom has offered to do my shower because of all the arguments, complaints and drama the BMs & MOH are going through.  One less thing to worry about although they wanted to do my shower. So as I'm looking at invites for my mom I notice an RSVP area and thought "crap, my mom only speaks Spanish" so one of my close friends (who also happened to be a BM) offered to just be the RSVP person for my mom but she said I should mention it to the MOH because she'd didn't want to step on her toes.  Since we are all friends, given this is why I asked them to be part of the WP I texted the MOH and that just went all wrong.  Her response was "That is my job...but do whatever you want, its your wedding." I haven't been able to respond because I am a tad bit upset.  Love my MOH to death but she is the worst person to get a hold off, even prior to the wedding.  I was use to calling her or texting and it taking days and sometimes weeks to get a response back.  I knew this so I can't be upset that this is one of the problems the BMs have with her.  However, this is one of the reason's I wouldn't put her as RSVP for the shower and I even told her this.  She doesn't argue that she  never answers or is hard to get a hold off, but she does argue and give me attitude about taking away things that are her "job."   I think now I'm understanding the BMs a bit better.   Mini vent over.  
    Posted by fperez7542[/QUOTE]

    Let it go. Your one BM stepped up and said she'd do it. If your MOH wants to help, let her contact the BM and tell her that herself.

     

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  • fperez7542fperez7542
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    It interesting how some ladies here vent about their MOH and BM not doing anything and then mine just want to do everything.  I feel like they will be happy if I gave them free reign to plan my entire wedding as long as none have to deal with each other lol

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  • gmcr78gmcr78 member
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    She's not even the one throwing the shower, and she's telling you that accepting the RSVPs is her job?  She needs to chill. 
    Just let this go. If she's going to be pouty, so be it. 
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