I'd like to preface this question by saying I'm not doing either of these two things. I'm just curious what most people find more offensive.
When people invite you only to the reception or when people invite you only to the ceremony.
I've been to a wedding where I was invited only to the reception and it really bothered me. Technically they were in the clear ettiquettewise since their ceremony was immediately before the reception and was immediate family only. But it still really bothered me. I feel like wittnessing the actual marriage is the whole point of going to the wedding and since the reception was an informal backyard shindig I kind of felt like I bought an expensive gift just to attend a BBQ.
I've never been only invited to a ceremony so I'm not sure If I would feel worse about that.
Thoughts? Stories?