I've received all RSVP's back but from one...MY COUSIN. My RSVP date is April 18th and I feel this is my stress and the dark cloud that is looming over me. So let me start by what has happened so maybe you can advise on what my next step should be with her annoying #ss LOL A little history about her is she is all talk and no action. EVER. Always flakes. She gets sick, someone dies etc and I personally hate bs. Keep it real. Is it that difficult?? So when I was planning the wedding, knowing the flake that she is, I had a good talk with her asking if she will come to the wedding and she told me 'I can't believe you would think I would miss that and not go'! Fast forward to December. She sends me a text asking what my kids want for Christmas because in her words 'she's trying to be a better aunt this year' So I tell her and she says 'DONE'. Well come Christmas surprise surprise she's sick and no gifts. Tells me Santa will have to come in two weeks. That comes and passes and she texts me this glamour shot of herself then this big text of how she's so so sick. So I didn't respond until 2 days later saying 'I just seen your text, hope you feel better'. Haven't heard from her since. In February I sent her a text telling her off basically that she always plays her disappearing games when it's time to own up and did she really think I expected her to come through and that if she doesn't come to my wedding I'm done with her. No response. I still mailed her an invitation because she is the only family I have besides my sister and I want her there. I know she got the invite and to me, that would have been her opportunity to text me to say I received your invite yada yada but nothing and I really don't feel I should have to kiss her #ss seeing she's the one that's a bs'er. What should I do???