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Traveling to reception?

Hello all, 

I'm just now beginning to plan my April/May 2014 wedding. We want to hold our reception on my family farm. We're fortunate to have a headstart in many aspects. My family owns a restaurant/bakery, so our chefs will be handling all of the catering. The farm has multiple houses, and we'll be setting up the tent in between them giving our 150 guests access to many bathrooms. We have generators and won't have to worry about blowing circuits. We even have a large catering prep kitchen on the property. My Aunt is a florist and my almost Aunt (very close friend of the family and business partner) is a designer who has done parties for Oprah, Maya Angelou and other celebs. Basically, everything is set up perfectly, so naturally there has to be some major issue. The issue is that the farm is about an hour north of where the majority of our guests live, where our out of town guests will be staying and where the church ceremony will take place. 

The farm is in a very rural area. The closest hotels are 20 minutes away (in the opposite direction of Charlotte). Since we're able to save so much money on other aspects of the wedding due to the fact that we're "in the industry" we were thinking of hiring shuttle busses to shuttle people from the church (in Charlotte) to the reception on the farm, and then offering 3 or 4 different return times. We have plenty of parking on the property so people would be welcome to drive if they wanted to. WWYD? Would you be turned off by having to travel so far? Would you appreciate having a shuttle available or is that just weird? 

We're even considering setting up another semi-permanent tent type structure and having cots available for those adventurous souls who want to party until the sun comes up (sort of a tradition in my FI's home country) We'd have another shuttle leave the following day. 

Thoughts/advice much appreciated! I'd really hate to have to move things to a venue that will limit us in time, food, etc. etc. 

Lexi

Re: Traveling to reception?

  • We had a shuttle (not as far), I would say 80% of the guests took advantage. 

    Last year I went to a wedding in Austria.  Their site was 45 minutes from Vienna, but in the bride's hometown.  They had a shuttle for us.  I loved they arranged one for us.

    I say if you can afford one have one.






    What differentiates an average host and a great host is anticipating unexpressed needs and wants of their guests.  Just because the want/need is not expressed, doesn't mean it wouldn't be appreciated. 
  • I would definitely appreciate a shuttle! We're shuttling people from hotel to reception so people staying can relax, drink and have fun! Your plans sound great, good luck!
  • Thanks for the input everyone! For clarification, most guests with the exception of family will be 30+. FI is 34 and I'm 29. Most of our friends are in that range. 
  • the shuttle idea is great, but you need to find a way to get your ceremony closer to the reception space.  An hour is way to far to travel between events.
  • Your distance isn't that far.  I don't think you need 3-4 times for the shuttles.  2 should be fine.  Others who don't want to deal with your schedule can drive b/c you said there was parking. 

    Don't worry so much.  this is not the 1st time your guests have been to a wedding. 
  • I would probably look into the hotels which are only a 20 minute commute if I lived an hour away from the wedding. See if you can get some deals lined up for guests at those hotels that are 20 minutes away.

    I do agree that one hour between ceremony & reception location is too far of a drive. Even for your bridal party. That's a lot of time in the car traveling. Can you move the ceremony to the farm?
  • Hi All, 

    We could move the ceremony to the local Catholic church near the farm (20 minutes away)but everyone will still have to drive an hour+ to get to the church, so commute time is the same. The church is very small and could only hold about half of our guests, if that. 

    Thanks for the input everyone!
  • The thing is, if most of your guests are in one area (a certain city or a hotel), and then they have to travel 20-30 minutes to the ceremony location, and then ANOTHER hour between ceremony & reception, that is too far. 

    If there is a church 20 minutes from your farm, I would consider using that one, and trying to get a hotel block in that area.  Asking your guests to travel an hour between ceremony & reception is way to much. Shuttle or not.
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