or is it just me?
I have a friend who is good friends and have been since middle school and my friend (et's call her Angela) is MOH in her friend's wedding. Angela is struggling to take care of her and her son who is 3 (also going to be in the wedding as BG) and she is super stressed by how much money she is expected to spend...
The bridesmaid's dresses are almost $200 without alterations, $100 more than the original dress they chose but they decided on a new dress without Angela, who had to work the second they went shopping. Also, the new dress is bright weird color and has a weird halter of some sorts and it's calf legnth and just all around typical horrible bridesmaids dress.
The tuxedo the bride chose for Angela's son to wear is almost $150 to RENT. I don't know if it's gold lined but that seems absolutely outrageous.
The bride is planning HER OWN Bridal Shower! She expects Angela, as well as another MOH (She is having 2, a Matron and a Maid o.0 ) to pay for the shower that the BRIDE is planning. The Bride is saying to have it at Angela's father's home, which is large and it can accomodate a good amount of people but she wants it catered from a high end restaurant and she has a 50 person guest list with a B-list just in case the first 50 can't make it.
The bride is also planning HER OWN Bachelorette Party! 3 days away in a city not too far from us and the MOH's have to pay for all of it.
I told Angela to step down as maid of honor and to just go as a guest because she simply cannot afford it. But Angela is torn because when her son was born, the Bride helped out in so many ways by constantly buying diapers, a crib, clothes just anything she needed.
Oy... I don't know what she should do....