So I know its not common for MIL's to be excited that their son is getting married, I get that. However, my mother in law is diving me nuts! We get married in October and have been together for over 8 years, so Im used to dealing with her. But now her craziness is at an all time high surrounding details of our wedding. She wants to be involved in everything, and is trying to be more involved than my own mom.
My fiance and I already have the bulk of our wedding details decided, and we didnt involve her in our decisions because it is our day (and we are paying for it). She also has a bad habit of not filtering her comments, regardless of who/what it concerns. Its getting to the point where I get up in the morning and she has already sent me multiple emails with links to reception venues, caterers, florists and dresses. These are all things that are set and paid for but everytime I mention that that detail is already taken care of, she blows up and says that she was never told!
Ive tried to talk to her about how pushy/involved she is becoming and my fiance has talked to her too, but its getting to the point where I cannot tell her anything about our wedding because she has something negative to say about it. Im really trying to include her in things because she only has sons, none of the others whoa re even close to getting married bt its too taxing on me. I need some advice on how to go about telling her - in a nice way - that she is crazy! Haha, well, that she needs to calm down form her outbursts and just accept what we are doing. (Nothing out of the ordinary I might add is happening at our ceremony/reception). Thanks!!