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[Deleted User] · May 2013

Hello Everyone! So i have a quick question for everyone... feel free to comment, as well as taking the poll.

CLoGreenEyes · May 2013

I agree with most others; it's just FB, and just because they're an ex of mine doesn't mean my family has to cut ties if they have a good relationship. And, as one PP pointed out, privacy settings exist for situations like abuse, stalking, etc. - although I would hope my family wouldn't be inclined to a friendship with someone who seemed capable of harming me in the first place.

ETA: Also, I feel like my relationship status with someone else (engaged, married, etc.) wouldn't make a difference in my answer. It just means I'm with someone else. And I can't imagine why my BF would be upset if my family was FB friends with an ex - it's not a reflection on our relationship at all.

[Deleted User] · May 2013

Okay so first of all, my FH asked his mom, sisters, sister in law and brother to delete EX2 and EX3 because they had added the girls when FH and them were dating... His family NEVER met these two girls. Just added them, to stalk their brother/son. EX 1 is a former fiance of my FH. She abused him, and almost drove him into the ground. Used him for his money and completely distroyed his career. The family wasnt supportive of that engagement, and continues to talk bad about her constantly. They keep her on facebook just to laugh at what her life has brought her. See why this is disrespectful to my FH? He asked them to remove these girls, not me. I dont like it, but he asked for them to do this.

misssunshine17 · May 2013

In Response to Re: facebook fail:
[QUOTE]Okay so first of all, my FH asked his mom, sisters, sister in law and brother to delete EX2 and EX3 because they had added the girls when FH and them were dating... His family NEVER met these two girls. Just added them, to stalk their brother/son. EX 1 is a former fiance of my FH. She abused him, and almost drove him into the ground. Used him for his money and completely distroyed his career. The family wasnt supportive of that engagement, and continues to talk bad about her constantly. They keep her on facebook just to laugh at what her life has brought her. See why this is disrespectful to my FH? He asked them to remove these girls, not me. I dont like it, but he asked for them to do this.
Posted by Asha3988[/QUOTE]

Doesn't really change anything.

If your FI has a problem with it, block the women on facebook and they can't see anything.

lyndausvi · May 2013

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: facebook fail : Yep.
Posted by LingerLonger1[/QUOTE]

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QueerFemme · May 2013

In Response to Re:facebook fail:[QUOTE]In Response to Re: facebook fail:Okay so first of all, my FH asked his mom, sisters, sister in lawnbsp;and brother to delete EX2 and EX3 because they had added the girls when FH and them were dating... His family NEVER met these two girls.nbsp; Just added them, to stalk their brother/son.nbsp; EX 1 is a former fiance of my FH.nbsp; She abused him, and almost drove him into the ground.nbsp; Used him for his money and completely distroyed his career.nbsp; The family wasnt supportive of that engagement, and continues to talk bad about her constantly.nbsp; They keep her on facebook just to laugh at what her life has brought her.nbsp; See why this is disrespectful to my FH?nbsp; He asked them to remove these girls, not me.nbsp; I dont like it, but he asked for them to do this.Posted by Asha3988Doesn't really change anything.nbsp;If your FI has a problem with it, block the women on facebook and they can't see anything.nbsp; Posted by misssunshine17[/QUOTE] Yep. This addition doesn't change anything. Your FI doesn't get to control his family. Even if they are being dumb.

BostonGIrl4732 · May 2013

So what, if they don't delete the exes, you're going to have an issue with your FI's family? That sounds very childish to me. They are adults. They make their own decisions. If it's affecting you that much, you may need to take a step back and understand what you can and can't control. Is your FI sleeping with these girls? Is he having an emotional affair with them? No? Good. Then they really don't have any standing on your relationship. At all. So who cares who they are friends with on FB?

thejucheidea · May 2013

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[QUOTE]They keep her on facebook just to laugh at what her life has brought her. See why this is disrespectful to my FH?
Posted by Asha3988[/QUOTE]

No, because sometimes exes have the most primo drama. I LOVE looking at my fiance's ex-girlfriend's Facebook because it is totally hilarious. We just sit there together laughing because we're horrible people AND it's awesome.

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