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Tipping the officiant when we elope?

mshoppus182mshoppus182
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My fiance and I are eloping at the end of August to New York City.  We have hired an nondenominational officiant and a photographer (who will also serve as our witness).  Are we expected to tip the officiant?  We will not meet her until the actual ceremony which will take about 10 minutes?  If so, how much would be appropriate?  Her fee is $275.  Also do you tip the photographer?  Thanks in advance!!
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Re: Tipping the officiant when we elope?

  • MoonlightSilverMoonlightSilver member
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    edited May 2013
    My understanding is that people who are business owners do not need to be tipped, but if you want to tip someone you can do so. So if you officiant works for herself, and not say a church that the fee goes to, you don't need to tip her. Same with the photographer. But if you feel their services go above and beyond, you are welcome to tip. 

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  • LoopysevenLoopyseven member
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    ^ what she said.  Tipping is always optional depending on the level of services performed.
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