I'm just genuinely curious how many brides will have one or more men in their wedding party, or on the flip side, grooms with women in theirs.
After some drama and tweaking due to amount of siblings, both only having brothers, not really having many friends (many of my friends were met through fiance as I'm not very social and have many acquaintances rather than close friends), and having so severe a falling out with a ten-year-long best friend that she will probably not even be invited to the wedding let alone in the party, we worked out even numbers and managing to include all the brothers by deciding I will ask my brother to be my Man of Honor and my bestie will stand behind him, plus one mo0re female friend. I was thrilled to learn about this trend and I'm curious how many people will be mixing it up like this because of siblings or opposite-gender besties on either side.
Also, what are you doing for gifts, then? Will you give your bridesman the same thing as the GMs, or will you try to give something that coordinates with the bridesmaids? (And the same question but for groomswomen.) Our GM gifts will likely be alcohol related (like a flask or something) and my brother will only be 18. (I might still do that anyway, though haha.) I think I'm going to give him something special.
Final question, will you be dressing them the same as the groomsmen or will you dress them differently to match the bridesmaids (like a lighter suit or something)? Will you dress a groomswoman in a bridesmaid dress, or maybe in black with a sash to match the suit and tie (assuming that's not how you're doing the BMs anyway)? My brother will be dressed like the groomsmen most likely, but since my BMs will be wearing black, it won't stand out.