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Brides Maid Dress Nightmare/ fiance being annoying

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I am having such a hard time trying 2 find brides maids dresses 4 my 4 attendants. 3 are out west , and 1 is now here with me in Georgia. Every dress I look at is just 2 damn expensive, since im the 1 paying 4 the dresses. I have 5 1/2 months til my wedding and its driving me crazy. Then of course 2 make matters worse i cant get my brides maids 2 agree on the dress that I want them in. Im gonna SCREAM!!!!!!!

Now 4 the 2nd part of this rant. my fiancee or i should say husband since we're already legally married, is being a massive pain in the ass. he knows that we need 2 start getting the invitations printed out since we are doing them ourselves, but he keeps dragging his ass. we have 2 start paying the deposits and he keeps delaying and delaying, and its really starting 2 piss me off!!!!! any advice would be GREAT!!!!!
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    [QUOTE]I am having such a hard time trying 2 find brides maids dresses 4 my 4 attendants. 3 are out west , and 1 is now here with me in Georgia. Every dress I look at is just 2 damn expensive, since im the 1 paying 4 the dresses. I have 5 1/2 months til my wedding and its driving me crazy. Then of course 2 make matters worse i cant get my brides maids 2 agree on the dress that I want them in. Im gonna SCREAM!!!!!!! Now 4 the 2nd part of this rant. my fiancee or i should say husband since we're already legally married, is being a massive pain in the ass. he knows that we need 2 start getting the invitations printed out since we are doing them ourselves, but he keeps dragging his ass. we have 2 start paying the deposits and he keeps delaying and delaying, and its really starting 2 piss me off!!!!! any advice would be GREAT!!!!!
    Posted by evarmstrong[/QUOTE]

    This is such an easy fix. You're already married so there's no need to put on a fake wedding. There, now doesn't that feel good? All that stress is gone! I bet your husband has been waiting around for you to let go of this PPD and move on with your life.
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  • ViczaesarViczaesar member
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  • annmarie714annmarie714 member
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    That was extremely difficult to read with all the 2s and 4s that weren't actually in place of the words two or four but instead in place of to/too and for.  For the love of all things, type out the correct word.

    You solved your problem: you're already married so the BM dresses and the invites aren't important at this point.  A wedding occured when you got married, I don't see a need to have a second one.  That just makes you an AW.
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  • missfrodomissfrodo member
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    Congratulations on your marriage!  I'm glad you found a loving and faithful husband after all the heartache you've been through.  

    You and H don't sound like you're on the same page financially, if he's dragging his feet to put deposits down.  If he's doing it b/c he doesn't feel comfortable spending all that money on a party, then you guys need to sit down and discuss finances and how your money will be spent.  Finances are one of the biggest factors that can break a marriage; you need to have this talk RIGHT NOW if you haven't already.  How long have you been married, and how have you handled expenses up to this point?  

    It doesn't sound from your post that you've been married for very long.  I would save the kind of vow renewal you are looking at for a milestone anniversary, like 10 or 25 years, or just throw a little party at home right now to join both of your families.  

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  • Angelface225Angelface225 member
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    How about just a celebration of your marriage? If you're already married, you don't need bridesmaids so complaint #1 is solved. Have a big party and invite all your friends to celebrate that you are already married. I agree with PP, your post is very hard to read. If you want people to take you seriously, don't substitute numbers for words.

     

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  • hgminorhgminor member
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    Congrats on your marriage!

    Since you are already married, you don't need a wedding, invites, BMs and dresses, etc... just have a party.  It will be more cost effective, smaller, more casual, and way less stress!

    But I have to ask- why did you decide to pay for all the BM dresses if you can't afford them?  I don't understand this when the One requirement of a BM is that they buy a dress...


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  • AddieCakeAddieCake member
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    In Response to Re: Brides Maid Dress Nightmare/ fiance being annoying:
    [QUOTE]Also, didn't you past a few months ago that you were engaged but it was off because your boyfriend cheated? So confused by your whole situation.
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    YES.


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  • renegade gauchorenegade gaucho member
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    Yes, absolutely none of this is necessary.
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  • misssunshine17misssunshine17 member
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    Stop this train (wreck). You're married. You're not having a wedidng and you shouldn't be having BMs. 
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  • wrigleyvillewrigleyville member
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    [QUOTE]Ok, so let me kind of explain what the deal is. We did a quickie thing with a Justice Of the Peace. and when i say quickie it was basically do you want to marry her, and do you want to marry him? that was it. We want to have a ceremony with all our friends and both of our families. Its actually both of our ideas. More his than mine. 
    Posted by evarmstrong[/QUOTE]

    You should have thought of that before you went to the JoP. You're already married. You don't get a do-over. Throw a party and stop with the fake wedding nonsense.
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  • KDM323KDM323 member
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    So, you're stressed out over buying bridesmaids dresses and planning a "wedding" when you are already married?

    Yeah...real simple answer: don't throw a fake wedding and all the stress goes away.
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  • KimandByronKimandByron member
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    The best thing on these boards are not to talk about a wedding when you are already married. You can do a vow renewal and still do whatever you want. After all the day is yours regardless of what you decide to do with it.

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