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elope then reception?

ARM92ARM92 member
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My FI and I are really thinking about eloping mainly because I never wanted the big wedding thing. He wants to still have some form of reception or party afterwards with our closest family and friends. I was just wondering if this is normal? I am fine with the idea but we have alot of time to plan.
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Re: elope then reception?

  • JoanE2012JoanE2012 member
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    To me, eloping then coming back for a party seems to defeat the purpose.  If the party is just going to be your closest friends and family, why not just invite them to the ceremony?   

    Regardless, if you elope, you can have a party (not a reception) to celebrate afterwards. 
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  • brielleinlovebrielleinlove member
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    It's okay to do this if your ceremony is truly private - meaning either a true elopement with just you two and an officiant, or something slightly larger with IMMEDIATE family only (parents, siblings, and children).  However, your party would be just that - a party.  No big poofy dress, no first dance, no cake cutting, no bridal party... but plenty of dancing, food, and fun with family and friends.  Good luck!
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  • pends123pends123 member
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    A cousin of mine married her first husband in Vegas on Valentine's Day with no family or friends present. When they came back they threw a "reception" in honor of their marriage and we were happy to celebrate with them.

    She may have worn her wedding dress but there was no bouquet or garter toss. It was more of a party/family get together.
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  • ARM92ARM92 member
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    Thanks for the clarification Ladies!!
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