ok, so now that mom is going HOME from the hospital after over 2 weeks, and money has been figured out, and everything seems to be a billion times better in my life....I need help with my hair. to recap...I went to my hair trial last week and was convinced that the style I wanted (half up, half down with curls) wouldn't last in the heat, so I agreed to an up do. I wear my hair up all the time (at work, at home, it's ALWAYS in a pony tail). I talked it over with FI and my mom, and decided screw it. I WANT MY HAIR DOWN, and so down it will be. I called my hair dresser and told her about the change, and that I can't afford a second hair trial, but to plan on a down do (she's excited too because she knew that's what I really wanted). Now Ladies, please....I need ideas....a half up half down do that will look ok with a veil, and last in the heat.