Knottie vibes for my cousin

allychase · May 2013

Last year my cousin had a stillbirth at 27 weeks of her daughter. We just found out she is expecting TWINS now and is due October 7th but will probably have a C section at around 37 weeks. She has been trying for 10 years to have a baby and we are praying like crazy that this she will go full term and delivery healthy babies... Need some knot vibes!!

J&K10910 · May 2013

Perhaps you could provide me with her full name so I can properly vibe her.

AddieCake · May 2013

Oh, that's heartbreaking. I have an aunt who delivered stillborn twins, and it was terribly traumatic for she and her husband. Vibes for healthy babies!

gmcr78 · May 2013

Um, no full names, please, to the PP. Why on earth would you even ask for that on an international internet forum.

Ally, good vibes sent her way!

J&K10910 · May 2013

gmcr78 said:

Um, no full names, please, to the PP. Why on earth would you even ask for that on an international internet forum.

Ally, good vibes sent her way!

Well, I don't know her at all. How can I properly vibe someone I don't know?

wittykitty14 · May 2013

Vibes to your cousin! That's a REALLY hard thing to go through. My brother knew someone who's wife was pregnant with quadruplets that had been developing just fine. When it came time to deliver them, 2 were still births and one died within hours after birth. The remaining one survived and was healthy. I can't imagine having to go through something like that.

allychase · May 2013

Wow screw both of you. Taking being an ass to a whole new level. Congrats.

allychase · May 2013

Thank you to everyone else, it was really hard for our family to watch her go through that last year and it would be amazing for this to go full term. She's only telling immediate family so for now stranger vibes will have to do

J&K10910 · May 2013

I'm not snarking about stillbirths and fertility issues. Promise. I understand the devastation it can cause, and I'm really very sorry that Ally's cousin has gone through that. I absolutely hope for nothing but the best for her.

But I just think it's really weird to ask for vibes for someone no one here "knows." Apparently I'm in the minority, so good thing I don't come around often.

allychase · May 2013

So be an ass on any of the other DOZENS of T&P posts on here every other day. You don't "know" ANY of us on here who ask for it. This is one of those scenarios where if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all. It's called class. Have some.

MuppetFan · May 2013

Ally,
I'm sorry for what's going on with your family. I will keep you and your loved ones in my thoughts.

MuppetFan · May 2013

People ask for vibes or T&P here all the time. I assumed you both knew that because I see you on the boards. Therefore it looked like you were jumping on this post not because the idea of sending vibes to someone you don't know is odd, but because you don't like the user who was asking.

I someone basically writes "Vibes that my cousin's babies don't die like the last one did" and someone responds "I'll need their full name and possibly SSN to vibe properly," it comes across very cold. If you're saying that you didn't mean it that way then I certainly believe you, but I don't think that my initial reaction was due to a lack of reading comprehension.

I agree with you 100%. We also know that they are trolls responding is feeding them.

allychase · May 2013

It's 100% true that those two posts were ignorant and the fact they are defending what they said isn't helping their cause. They're grasping at straws. Yawn. What else is on?

harper0813 · May 2013

Back to the subject at hand (for just this one post at least) - my thoughts are with your cousin! I hope she has a safe, happy and fruitful pregnancy!

J&K10910 · May 2013

Heh. I'm a troll. Hooookay.

MuppetFan · May 2013

Well at least Linger has admitted to be one.

rel1988 · May 2013

Ally--best of luck to your sister and entire family! I can't even imagine going through a miscarraige. Prayers for 2 healthy babies to love on!

allychase · May 2013

Shes my cousin, and thank you!

HobokensFury · May 2013

Ally I wish nothing but the best for your cousin. My own cousin went through something similar and I know how hard it can be. I'm happy to report now she has 2 healthy babies. I hope the same thing happens for your cousin.

Ladies regardless of how you feel about the OP let's try to keep Knottie Vibe and T&P posts positive.

allychase · May 2013

Regardless of whether or not anyone agrees with my opinion I've always presented it in an adult and classy manner and NEVER taken any personal shots at anyone like this. I can't say the same for people like Linger who feel that the arguments and snark they cause on a daily basis are of less shock value than anything I've said in the year I've been here despite pissing off WAY more people than I have. I've said it before and ill say it again now that she has personally offended me, if Linger is an admitted troll why the hell has she not been banned? She's not a joking around/lighthearted funnies troll, she's insensitive and rude and has NOTHING positive to contribute to these boards but because she's been here forever the rules don't apply to her. What they said at least warrants a "warning." It was completely uncalled for.

J&K I believe you were mistaken for a troll because people aren't typically that insensitive and flat out rude and unsympathetic on the Internet unless they're a troll. It was an honest mistake on PP part. Do yourself a favor and get over whatever opinion of yours I disagreed with in the past and continually taking it out on every. Single. Thing. I post. Unless you like making yourself look bad, of course.

To the people who responded to the original reason behind this post, I appreciate your input and T&P. it WAS hard for the entire family including myself, of course nothing compared to what she went through but the reason I posted this was because I was affected by it and am hoping and looking forward to things hopefully going better this time around.

MairePoppy · May 2013

Ally - I'll pray for your cousin and her babies.

allychase · May 2013

Kristan, her name is Kristy. I really appreciate what you wrote and thank you for your time in thinking of us. I know what you mean about wanting to know the name, in church we typically ask for the first name of the person- I guess it just helps in praying for a specific person. I get what you're saying there. Again thank you very much and I'm sure my cousin would appreciate all the good vibes.

Thank you smp and Maire!!

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