Hi all
I wanted to ask your advice about an issue I'm having with my maid of honor. I asked her to be my MOH 2 years ago when I got engaged and since then we've kind of grown apart. She lives on another island now (I'm from Hawai'i) and so the actual physical distance between us has added to that. When I tried to get together with her while visiting last Christmas, she bailed on me more than once (including not showing up to help me pick out my wedding dress). Now I can't get her to commit to even coming to the wedding. The only answer she'll give me is "I think I'm coming," which is a little scary at 67 days out! She says she is worried about the cost of travel, but when I offered to pay for her she kind of blew the idea off. I'm not sure what I should do. I feel like the more I press her about it the less decisive she becomes. What would you guys do?