Looking at doing a Make Your Own Cupcake type bar that way I can cut costs and don't have to frost them myself in place of sheet cake. Then for snacks during the cocktail hour part of the reception was thinking of doing a Trail Mix Bar with both sweet and salty options including candy, popcorn, peanuts, etc. where they can throw in what they like. Is having 2 do it yourself type bars too much? Just don't want to feel like it is overkill for the guests to do everything themselves. What do you think?