Needing help with colors.
We have already bought save the dates, invites and thank you's. They are black/white damask and silver.
I've already bought my dress and it is supposed to be ivory although anything ivory I hold next to it, it doesn't look like a true ivory, more of a soft/off white. I bought my garter in ivory and it is more yellow-ish than the dress. At the same time, its definitely not white, b/c everything white I hold next to it, it is very close but not white. This is my dress http://www.essensedesigns.com/essense-of-australia/dresses/detail/D1341
The colors I am leaning towards for the wedding are flowers: red, blue, white and purple; grey or purple bm dresses; grey and charcoal grey suits/tuxes for groom/groomsmen.
Should I have the guys wear white or ivory shirts? Should I have the flower girl wear a white or ivory dress? I bought a ring bearer pillow today that is white but I don't know how to make everything coordinate with my dress being ivory-ish. Should I just do everything else in the party white and have my dress stand out as the only ivory material or am I being too detail oriented? Help, please!