FI and I were scheduled to be married in September 2013 but have recently decided to scrap pretty much the whole thing. We had a traditional ceremony/reception planned but really, it just got too big for both of us. Neither of us wanted to spend lots of money on a wedding but as things kept adding up, our total ended up being close to $20k.
I hoping you can give me some ideas of what to do now - FI and I are really low-key people so the most important things are good food (I'm not opposed to a BBQ), good booze, and about 100 guests. Has anyone had a non-traditional wedding that can share their ideas/thoughts?