Planning this wedding seriously gives me a headache. I'm excited about the wedding but because our money is tight and we are paying entirely by ourselves this is all giving me a headache. I really don't want to have to give up the simple small church wedding we want but sometimes I am like wow how the hell are we gonna pay for this? We are planning very cheap and small (20-30 people) but still with church fees, pastor fees, photography etc it just adds up. I really just wanted to vent. I am sure someone else is going through the stress part and can relate.