Is this still a thing?
I was brought up to always say "best wishes" to the bride, and "congratulations" to the groom. My mom and gramma said that if you congratulate a bride, it makes it seem like she was a man-chaser and "finally caught a man." (Paraphrased.)
Either way, I'm just happy whenever someone is happy for me, so it doesn't really matter, but I've noticed that I do prefer when someone says "best wishes," not "congratulations" to me. I'm sure it has to do with how I was brought up.
Your thoughts?