I am recently divorced. I got married in October 2011 to my high school sweetheart of 10 years. Unfortunately, he became everything he promised he never would and, long story short, gave me no other option but to file for divorce. During our separation, I began hanging out with a friend I had met in college 6 years earlier. Eventually the friendship became more and we began dating and are now living together. He has brought up the topic of marriage several times and has expressed that he does want to get married in the near future and has even talked about wedding plans; although we are not engaged yet. My issue is this: If we get married, it would be my second wedding and his first. He does want a wedding but not a big one. I would love to have a wedding but I'm not sure about second wedding etiquette. I certainly don't expect my parents to pay for it and I will not ask them to do so, but as far as how big of a wedding, wedding gifts, that sort of thing, whats appropriate? Its his first wedding and I don't want to take away that from him. And even though its my second wedding, it's my first wedding to him and I feel like every wedding should be special and every marriage should be celebrated. Anyone have any similar situations or any advice? I would greatly appreciate it.