I wanted to know if ushers and groomen are the same and if not do ushers sit at the head table with groomsmen? I also want to know about the flower girl and ringbeare. would be rude for me to not have them at the head table. I only do this because their mom wont be sitting nex to them and my mom will be constantly up from her table to check on them. I feel like this is distracting and to prevent this would be to sit them with my mom or their dad.