We live in two separate homes, have all our own things, so his thinking is, why do we need to register for dishes? We have dishes. My thoughts are likely common - I want nice dishes, *our* dishes. I'm not serving my in-laws on mix-matched, college plates when they visit.
Besides, as a guest of several weddings, I feel much better about picking out something off a registry because I know it's something they want. Not just winging it and risking they don't like/need it. I don't want to start off married life with a bunch of unnecessary things in my kitchen!
Any advice on how to explain that to him, let him know that a registry is going to happen? It's not hugely important if he's there with me, picking out items for our registry. But I believe this is something important to do. I don't want the expensive china you use once a year, I want a practical registry that includes items I will use on a regular basis.
Ideas on how to approach this with him?
Thanks in advance!