We decided not to invite children to our wedding - we've had mixed reviews, but no serious drama. I've felt really awesome about the no drama from what I've been reading on here of guests throwing fits, indigo children, threats via Facebook, etc. We sent out our invitations a couple weeks ago and everyone seems to "get it" (i.e. they're only putting their names and "2" or "1" for the number attending.
RSVPs have been coming in and yesterday I got the best one ever from my cousin and his wife who have 4 kids:
"Number attending __2__ (+4 kids +1 babysitter... can't wait!!)"
I was waving it around and all, "Oh no they did not!!! FI, look at this! I knew SOMEONE was going to do this! Ugh, people are so bold." Then I noticed the small arrow at the bottom. I flipped the card over and it said, "Just kidding! Gotcha! Can't wait for the wedding and some adult time. See you soon!"
PUNKED!! It was great and just wanted to share. 

                  
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