Like...When they baby is born?
Dear Prudence,
My husband and I recently found out I'm pregnant (yay!). We have very
few disagreements and generally see eye-to-eye on most things. But we
fundamentally disagree on whether or not to find out the gender of our
unborn child. I don't want to find out; he does. I could go through all
of the arguments, but neither of us views it logically. Me: It doesn't
really matter what the gender is, I'd rather be surprised. Him: Hates
surprises. This is one of the few things in life that there's no
compromise, because you either find out or you don't. I also don't think
that it would work for him to find out and me not to—I know the answer
would be revealed one way or another. How can we resolve this?