I am not really sure what to do; I really don’t have anyone
that I can ask to be a flower girl. I
don’t know that many people that have young children they are either in their
teens or infants. My ringer bear is
going to be my FSIL two little boys that are 2 ½ and seven but I don’t really
know anyone with a young daughter to ask.
My FI wanted to think about having his cousin’s little girl, but his
cousin is not reliable and likes to be dramatic. Little bit of background on his cousin she
post to Facebook between 5-20 times per day talking about how stupid people
are, how see doesn’t have time to be on Facebook, how responsible she is for
being a single mom and not partying, to post at 3am how enjoyed “hanging out
late at night”. She called us at
midnight saying it was a emergency she was drunk, flipped out on her current
boyfriend and was walking down the road (lives close to 5 hours away from us)
we asked if we could call her a cab but she ”just wanted to talk” then hung up
when she got another call. She
is know for showing up late or not at all and expects that everything be done
for her. To add to the drama at the
family vacation this year she asked my FI mother if she could be in our wedding
(we weren’t there due to trying to save money and school). My MFIL replied that the wedding was going to
be small and that I had already picked a couple close friends to be bridesmaids
and then his cousin who is in her late twenties ask if she could be the flower girl
(she was serious). I feel bad for
her she has some issues but refuses to seek help. I still want to invite her since she is
family but I would really rather avoid all the drama of trying to ask to have
her daughter in the wedding and telling her no that she can’t be in the wedding
too. What should I do? Should I just have
ringbeares?