FI keeps asking people to give speeches. He's a big people-person and, being in sales, loves to make people feel appreciated.
We're now up to: three of his groomsmen, his best man, and his dad, on top of my dad and my maid of honor.
I've tried to thwart this by planning to have a mic set up for people to share their (short) favorite memories of us instead of clinking their glasses. I've twice tried interjecting nicely during his speech invitation and he waves it off. At the risk of not insulting the ask-ee by interrupting and saying "no, we already have enough speeches", I just shut up. And it seems insulting to un-ask them without cutting speeches entirely - which our dads, at least, are very much looking forward to. (Do you agree?)
I've requested that he stop asking people to make speeches because they will be boring for our guests to sit through. I know we can ask the guests to keep it to a minute or less but with alcohol in one's system or simply a lot to say, speeches can easily get long. How can I help curb this? There are still godparents, former and current bosses, and various other people I can imagine him asking...