Okay ladies tell me the truth. Am I being crazy?
I asked a friend from high school to be in my wedding party. lets call her Sally. She since found out she was pregnant and has given birth to a healthy baby boy. You may have read a post or 2 about her before. (She is the bridesmaid who called the sales team at the bridal shops a very crude 4 letter word starting with C ending in T amung a list of other things to make any wedding related thing she was involved in HELL for me) FI & my family wanted her out of the WP long ago but I said "No I will not kick anyone out of the WP"
ANYWAY, I have recently heard from 2 other girl friends that Sally said "If my BM dress doesnt fit for her wedding too bad so sad, I'm going to wear what I can fit into & like hell I am paying for alterations" Initially I shrugged it off and assumed she would never do that to me.
Now that I am ready to start printing programs I am a little more troubled by it. Should I bring it up with her? I am heading over to her place in an hour and was wondering if I should say something like.... "I know you have a lot going on in your life right now with the new baby and everything, and because we are both 2 mature adults I think I should ask you something that has been bothering me. Do you think you are still going to be able to be in the wedding party?"
I dont think bringing up who told me what she said is appropriate but I am still 2 months out, at this point I can still ask my other close friend - who has been acting like a BM to me when Sally hasn't been to any wedding related function to date to be in the WP. If I leave it too much longer I wont be able to rush order a dress in time for the wedding.
When I brought it up with my mom all she had to say was "I have heard & witnessed dozens of accounts of Sally giving you hell over planning this wedding, weddings really show you who your true friends are"
Should I leave it alone & see what happens? Bring it up with her?