So, FI's grandmother and aunt are throwing me a bridal shower, which is lovely of them, and I am very appreciative.
They asked me for a list of names/addresses for people to invite, which I provided.
Today, after the invitations to the shower have gone out, I find out that they have invited several people to the shower who not only weren't on the shower invite list, they're not invited to the wedding. (Which is why they weren't on the shower list I provided, obvs).
I pointed this out to FI, who's pissed about it. He called his aunt and asked, "Why did you invite so-and-so, when they weren't on the list, and you know they're not invited to the wedding?"
Auntie said, "Well, I know the rule is that anyone invited to the shower has to be invited to the wedding, and I thought you should have invited these people, and now you have to."
FI is seeing red he's so angry. He's refusing to invite them -- they were left off his list for a reason. Auntie is trying to guilt-trip him into it. I'm backing his play, because these are his relatives.
But what say the O Wise Knotties about this situation?
I'm gonna go with 'not my circus, not my monkeys.'