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Inviting guests just because you were invited to their wedding...

klcanningklcanning member
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in Wedding Invitations & Paper
My fiance has a few friends who he became close with from studying abroad about 6+ years ago.

About 4 years ago we were invited to one of their weddings but have not seem them since. Keep in touch via FB every once in a while when an old memory comes up, but not really that much.

About 1 year ago we were invited to anothers wedding, but since we were invited to two weddings on that date, we chose the other wedding of a closer friend.

Most likely will not see either couple again for a while unless it is at our wedding or at a wedding of a mutual friend (there is only 1 mutual friend left who isn't married).

I know we should never feel obligated, but I really don't want to be rude!

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Re: Inviting guests just because you were invited to their wedding...

  • AddieCakeAddieCake member
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    If you want them there and have room on the guest list and in the budget, then invite them. If you don't, then don't. You don't have to invite them just because they invited you. 


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  • nikole712nikole712 member
    100 Comments First Answer 5 Love Its First Anniversary
    There is no need to invite them if you do not feel close to them any longer. I was in a similar position when I was planning my guest list. About 5 years ago I had a group of friends that all got married around the same time. I went to all of their weddings, showers, etc., however since that time, I have drifted from them due to moving, different lifestyles, etc. Our guest list is pretty large as it is, so I decided since we are no longer close, I don't feel comfortable inviting them.
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