I'm despirately concerned about this. I don't really know why. I'm trying to make sure everything in this wedding is different than the first, especially me. I'm almost making myself sick over it. And its not really for me, I'm doing for my FI (he hasn't asked, btw) and some of those that will have attended both weddings. Will they care? Probably not. Will FI notice if he happens across an old photo of mine? Eh, maaaaybe.
When I was dress shopping I was having them pull ball gowns and fuller skirts. A lot looked nice and were beautiful dresses but I couldn't pull the trigger. My FSIL pulled one that none of us realized was more fitted. It was amazing and I bought it. My other dress was a more fitted dress as well but much different than this one.
And now I'm looking for jewelry - headpieces, sash etc. I found a headpiece that I instantly loved. For me thats huge, if I loooove it I've learned to just get it because I likely won't like anything else. The headpiece I found is a double headband with flowers. My other headpiece was a double headband. Sigh. I began to doubt my instincts.
Is anyone else going through and worried about this but me???? I decided this evening that some things are just me and my style so of course they will be similar. But dang, I've had an internal battle getting here!