Tell'em off Tuesday on Monday!

nbrown501 · June 2013

I found out on Friday that my brother wife, wants to attend my wedding. I have not spoken to this heffa since 2010 when she sent out a mass text message to the whole family airing everybody dirty laundry. I told her at that time i was done and she was not welcome in my space ever again. Now 5 days before my wedding you want me to look you in your fake a** face and feed yo a** on my dime at my wedding and your not woman enough to apologize or explain what the beef is about. I was so heated. And, my brother text me saying he want to make me and his wife happy but stuck in the middle. WTF!!! If he come to my wedding with her or if he dont come at all, I will cut him off alone with her.

FA Real yall, 5 days til one of the biggest days of my life. SMH!!! FUMING!!!

leatba · June 2013

Is she for real?!?!? Even if she wanted to make peace, your wedding is not the time to do it. My guess is everyone will be there so she was trying to knock it all out at one time. NERP. And this is 2013. She needs to get a few lives and stay away from YOUR wedding

nbrown501 · June 2013

I told my brother that this week and my wedding day is not the appropriate time to deal with that whole situation. Their trying to make it about them and its all about me and my husband on that day.

tirathemrs · June 2013

nbrown501 AINT THAT SOME BULL... who does that?? Id have to let her knw sorry but i am no longer accepting guests, i have paid for everything and everybody that i sent an invite to IE: YOUR NOT INVITED AND DONT SHOW UP...this is your wedding and not time to rekindle a friendship that is long gone....GIRL BYE!!!

raven&mark · June 2013

WTH...She musta lost her rabbit a## mind. I agree with misstira. Let her know that your count is already in and she was not and is not invited. Flat out! AINT NOBODY GOT TIME FA THAT. ..

LeciaB · June 2013

WHOA....ummmm this is YOU and the MISTERS wedding day not the Maury show... she. .. no he..

NO THEY need to get their life.. and recongnize..just like @leatba, @misstira and @raven&mark said..the count is in and she was NOT now nor ever was invited... and that dusty negra is NOT about to eat, drink , or party on your dime or time... if she wanted to be your friend she should have thought about that before she got all messy..chile please

[Deleted User] · June 2013

Nic, just wanna be clear, help me with the bottom line - your brother's choices are: come without her or don't come?

a. we're extending our arms, holding them out to the universe in the all purpose lotus-flower yoga pose. now breathe.

b. call your brother and start with I love you, always have, always will. I understand and respect your position and I'm asking you to understand mine. I can do genuine relationships or fake nothings but I can't be fake in my relationships, your wife and I will have to resolve this on any day except saturday. And I get that you're in the middle, so I respectfully leave the decision up to you, I hope to see you there but I'll understand if I don't.

c. say nothing to her, the closer you come to saturday, the more she's finna nut-up. respond only to your brother and only after several more lotus-flowers otherwise you will wind up on a bravo network television show.

reviewing. lotus flower. deep breaths. love you bro. understand your perspective, can you understand mine? talk to you soon. you invited him (assuming) leave the decision (and the handling of his nutty ass bride) also to him. your children are/will be cousins nic, don't allow her to tempt you into going there.

in other news: 4 more days!! 4 more days!!!!! whooo hooooo!!!

in still other news: the thread is called Tell Em, not Tell Em *off* LOL!! praise reports are welcome too

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[Deleted User] · June 2013

dammit man, I can't post graphics without a whole new message. crapperjacks. countdown clock!!! halllerluyerrrrr

LeciaB · June 2013

ok I dont really got to much to say but here i go..

so I really love my future MIL.. i always loved her but she started talking about how she has to pay her share for the wedding as well as for the rehersal dinner.. (I got to shout right now.. #wonthedoit)

ok so im telling me that this work out thing. ummm self it needs to be for real .. i know you see that ticker and pounds need to go..

umm crazy lady at work.. DONT SPEAK TO ME...

if I didnt start a convo with you please dont strat one with me .. we are only supposed to talk in group settings.. not in passing

[Deleted User] · June 2013

if I didnt start a convo with you please dont strat one with me .. we are only supposed to talk in group settings.. not in passing

LOL!!!! Leesh what the hayle? you got a restraining order on somebody at work?? guh? bye. LOL!!!

drmass2013 · June 2013

I don't have much but here it goes:

To the city of Richmond, VA and the state of VA and to these foolish women who have started this ratchet ridiculous reality TV showed called The Real Babymamas of Richmond, I just can't with this mess!!! I am a proud Virginian and I went to VCU for undergrad in Richmond and yes it has it's share of ratchets and yes I am a viewer of my ratchet TV such as Love and Hip Hop Atlanta, but this is taking it too far!! I thought it was a joke but no this mess is really being aired on local tv stations in Richmond. Now when I tell people I'm from VA are they going say Ohhh VCU or Virginia is for Lovers (I never thought that) or am I going get ohhhh VA where the real babymamas are. Really?!! Why must these women go on air and possible collect a check from putting their children, families, and poor representation of themselves out there like that?!! I really think I have seen it all now.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4Vq7Foq_2Ak

LeciaB · June 2013

@drmass2013.. i heard of the va is for lovers thing before.. (ok well on a shirt.. but hey i heard of it) .. but wait is this real? all these characters... hahah.. im slightly confused because I cant hear over the music where did they meet all these hood boogers?!?

@sultryzulu i dont have one against cray but she always coming for me but i never send for her.

she went around telling the office I have no degrees.. fact i have two.. theysay that parents complain about my special needs programs.. fact they love them.. she is always trying to get people caught up but she dont know im going find me some ghetto friends that can and will do damage

drmass2013 · June 2013

@LeciaB ...it' on shirts and everything else you can think of and I'm still wondering a lover of what exactly?Lol. But yes this is real, sad but it's true. Girl the workout thing, *sigh* I was doing so good but once the semester got over I finished my manuscript I got lazy and I haven't worked out in 2 weeks and have been eating junk like crazy!!! I got to get it together. We can do it girl!!

raven&mark · June 2013

@LeciaB and drmass. gurl dont get me started on the workout. I started out doing so good but lately I have been eatting up and have not been in the gym regularly. I need to drop 20 more lbs by my first fitting in August. And to make it so bad, the fiance has dropped about 20 and still dropping. I confess, Im a little jealous lol.....But we can and will do it ladies. We have to get wit it and stay motivated. #MOTIVATION IS THE KEY#

leatba · June 2013

Dear kids, I love y'all with all my heart, but y'all getting on my last nerve. Just because its summer does not mean you can sit in the house and do literally nothing. My name is not Kizzy and I will not be cooking and cleaning up after y'all. Dear FI, dude you are getting on my nerves too. I'm still not Kizzy. And invitations have been sent out. Quit trying to add people now. It's not my fault you like to do things last minute. And the way this wedding is set up........ No extras will be allowed Dear neighbor, if you don't tell your kids to sit down ill be up there to sit them down. And oh yeah I'm still not Kizzy so no babysitting

nbrown501 · June 2013

Thanks Ladies! I am standing strong on my word. SHE,(his wife) is NOT allowed at my wedding under no circumstances.

Dannitra01 · June 2013

Damn that! I agree with ALL the other ladies. Your wedding is not the time or place for this to happen. She is set trippin.

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