OK. I have two older brother, both I'm close with. Fiancé is only close to one of the brothers and has picked him to be one of his groomsmen. The other brother is more of a father figure to me and I initially thought about having him walk me down the isle.. Now my grandmother passed away last month and my dad has been trying very hard to rekindle our relationship and very much wants to walk me down the isle.. How can I make my oldest brother apart of the wedding? I want it to be something special.. not just an usher or stand on my side. Any ideas??